Book Review: The Gifted School

Hi there, friends! Today, I am sharing a book review on The Gifted School by Bruce Holsinger. It was published in July of 2019. The novel was brilliant, and I can’t wait to share my thoughts with you. You can buy the book here.

The story takes place in the prosperous, liberal, high-achieving, fictional town of Crystal, Colorado. It follows the lives of five families, four of whom have been friends for over a decade. The fifth family cleans the houses of some of the other four families. The author wrote the story in the third-person omniscient point of view through one member of each family’s perspective. The title of each chapter tells you whose perspective you are going to hear. I thought it was nicely done, and I loved how one person from each family made you feel connected to all five families.

The community of friends are well intentioned, but when a gifted magnet school opens up for all local communities—not just Crystal, all of their kids are competing for a spot. Or maybe it’s just the parents competing, because most of the kids seemed to feed off that energy. And, of course, in the land of Ivy league degrees and old money—all of their kids are gifted—right? Even if their parents hire the best tutors to ‘teach’ their kids how to ace the gifted test, they are still gifted, right? High expectations for their children and individual ambitions end up colliding in a mess of emotions, old dark secrets, and special surprises.

Though we hear the perspectives of members from each family, the most amplified voices come from Rose and Beck. Rose works in a hospital where some kids fight to live another day, yet she still obsesses over her daughter Emma’s entrance into the magnet school. She is especially consumed by competing with her best friend Samantha’s daughter, also named Emma. Beck is characterized as a self-focused, alpha male. We have all met the type, right? His first marriage failed, and his second one seems to be on that same path, but his twin boys are talented and need a strong father figure. I won’t say anymore, because you need to read the book to find out.

My favorite character is the son of the cleaning woman, and grandson of the family member whose perspective we read in the novel. His small, service-oriented town falls within the qualified region of testing for the magnet school, and to say the boy is gifted would be an understatement. The eleven-year-old boy is an intricate paper folding (origami) genius. In my opinion he has to be the most gifted kid in the whole novel. But truly, within every kid, like every person, lives a unique gift, even if not the kind of gift required to get into a magnet school. And shouldn’t we all be grateful for our unique gifts? And shouldn’t we all be proud of our children’s unique gifts? 

The author held my attention with the suspense, intelligent writing, and a whopper of a surprise ending. I cannot recommend this book enough friends—5 out of 5 stars.

I will say goodbye with a quote from the book that made me chuckle: There is something so tantalizing about having a gifted child that some parents will go to almost any lengths to prove they have one. (Sheila Moore and Roon Frost, The Little Boy Book)

Hope you enjoyed this book review about The Gifted School. Will you be scooping this novel up for your next read? Have you read The Gifted School, and if so what did you think of it? Do tell, I would love to know.

See you again soon at my blogspot for the next bookish topic. Keep reading, fellow bookies.

Book Review: The Far Field

Hello friends. I have another book review for you, so I hope you are ready! The book review is about a novel entitled The Far Field, written by first-time author Madhuri Vijay. The novel was published in 2019. I stumbled onto it in the new releases section of my local library, and scooped it up. Isn’t the cover beautiful? You can buy the book here: The Far Field 

The South Asian adult fiction novel centers around the main character Shalini, a well-off young woman from Bangalore adrift after the death of her mother. Coupling elegant literary prose with a socio-political scope through the eyes of native Himalayan Kashmiris, the novel follows a complicated view of the Indian subcontinent as Shalini heals from her grief, and rangles with her uncertain present. Shalini travels to Kashmir to find Bashir Ahmed, an old friend of her mother’s. She feels certain that Bashir Ahmed’s disappearance from her mother’s life was somehow connected to her death. The cause of her mother’s death is not revealed until the end, creating an element of surprise. The rest I will leave for you to read and find out. 

The novel was a slower read for me, and I almost lost interest in the beginning, but I am glad I didn’t stop reading, because eventually I was drawn in and hooked to Shalini’s fate. I took each step with her. I also think the The Far Field was constructed with the intention of it being savored. The visual imagery and slow moving plot allowed me to put the book down and pick it up over a couple of weeks, versus devouring its contents in a few days. And while there is excitement in books with a hot moving plot that rope you in, there is a silky-smooth charm in slower, literary novels like The Far Field.

The main character loved to teach. She taught students with cerebral palsy in Bangalore, and then taught a bright young girl in Kashmir. This said, it would have been nice to have an ending where maybe Shalini began teaching again, or even assisting. The ending left me somewhat dissatisfied because it wasn’t exactly a happy one, but it made me realize my own tendency to expect happy endings in books. If stories imitate life, then I think as readers we need to shift our expectations in a more realistic direction. Would you agree?

Goodreads gave The Far Field 3.84 stars out of five, but I give it a solid 4 stars, especially because it was Madhuri Vijay’s first book. If you are looking for an enjoyable read on your nightstand, or while taking a trip, give this one a go. It will not disappoint.

What did you think of this book review of The Far Field? Have you read The Far Field, and if so what did you think of it? Have you read any other good books lately? Do tell, I would love to know.

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Book review – The Unlikely Adventures of the Shergill Sisters

Hello and happy Friday folks! I’ve got another book review for you, so hold onto your seats! The novel is called The Unlikely Adventures of the Shergill Sisters published in April of 2019, and written by Balli Kaur Jaswal. You can purchase the book here. Previously I read another novel by the same author called Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows.

The book centers around three sisters Shirina, Rajni, and Jezmeen Shergill, who partake in a pilgrimage to India following the death of their mother. Rajni, the eldest sister, is depicted as a control freak. The middle sister Jezmeen has her head in the clouds, and the youngest sister, Shirina, is the peacemaker. Being Punjabi Sikh and coming from a family of three sisters myself, I felt a natural connection to the novel and characters. The gentle tug of war of balancing tradition and modernity, when you are a first generation child to immigrant parents, was also relatable for me.

The novel’s three main characters each carried a unique burden or two. Two of the problems were surprises, one was alluded to, and one threw me for a loop and pressed upon an issue I feel passionate about. You will have to read the story to find out though because I don’t want to ruin it for anyone. My curiosity around the alluded to issue along with the ongoing challenges the characters faced kept me hooked. 

As a writer I applaud Balli Kaur Jaswal’s well constructed plot structure, reeling in the book’s readers. The writing itself was not complex, consisting of simple verbs and easy to follow transitions. In that way a broad audience could enjoy the novel’s contents. 

My favorite parts of the book were the excerpts from the letter the Shergill sisters’ mother wrote to her daughters.

I wondered, when reading this, if my own parents felt this way when they immigrated to America:

Be patient. India is not going to be like London. The pollution and the bustling crowds will overwhelm you immediately. You girls always joked that I talked too loudly, and I turned everything into chaos. When you enter India, I want you to think about how it felt to leave this place and go somewhere as orderly as Brittain, with ruler straight rows of houses and trains that run on time. I also want you to understand how hard it was for me, adjusting to all of that quiet. 

I couldn’t agree more with what their mother wrote in her letter below:

Listen to the conversations around you. Watch people rejoicing as they rush to meet their relatives on the platforms of those smaller steps along the way. There’s no greater show of love and faith than traveling a long distance for somebody.

The below quote was not in the letter, but from either Jezmeen or Rajni’s thoughts. I do wish it was clearer whose thoughts they were in the novel. It was related to Indians who relocated abroad, but built vacation homes to return to in India. The quote rung true with what I have observed, and I appreciated the simplicity with which a commonality of humankind was relayed.

Everywhere people went, they had to remind themselves that they were somebody else.

Overall I enjoyed reading The Unlikely Adventures of the Shergill Sisters, and I would give it a solid 4.5 stars out of 5. If you are looking for a good book to pick up or add to your TBR list, give this book a shot.Have you read this novel, and if so what did you think of it?  Read any other good books lately that you recommend? Do tell – I would love to know.
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Book Review – The Silent Sister

Hello folks! I wanted to share a book review on The Silent Sister for your reading pleasure, as you venture into the weekend. The Silent Sister was published in 2014, and written by the internationally best-selling author, Diane Chamberlain.

Believe it or not, I stumbled onto the novel in a local Barnes & Noble and I was intrigued by reading the back cover, even though it’s not 1998! It has been forever since I scooped up a book from a bookstore on a whim, versus keenly selecting a novel through pre-meditated research on goodreads. Fellow writers, a good back cover, and a well-designed cover carry weight, so all of our efforts are worthwhile! OK, so, one additional tidbit. As I stood in the purchase line I quickly looked the novel up on amazon, and purchased it once I saw it had 2,719 reviews and 4 ½ stars, so that is more in tune with 2019.  BUT, I still would not have known about the novel outside of the walk-in bookstore occurrence.

Now, onto the review. I read the book in two days, which for me represents a plot driven novel. Right off the bat you feel incredible empathy for the main character, Riley, who lost both of her parents by the tender age of twenty-five, a sister who killed herself when Riley was two, and one mentally unstable brother left as a family member. She had no husband or children of her own, and her best friend had moved away. As Kurt Vonnegut said, ‘No matter how sweet and innocent your lead characters, make awful things happen to them-in order that the reader may see what they are made of.’ Chamberlain was successful in this regard, and without spilling the beans on what happens in case you want to scoop this novel up this weekend, I will leave it at that.

Somehow in the midst of a sad setting, the writer managed to keep the read from becoming heavy. The main character is rather focused on what matters—her brother, and managing her parent’s estate. That is until, of course, she begins to uncover some hidden family secrets. This takes Riley in a direction completely off course, with a multitude of shocking revelations. In this way, the author was successful in moving the story forward and reeling you in as a reader. And though this novel is not my typical read, I enjoyed the thrill as Riley unraveled the realities of her family and life.

A good book review draws attention to the challenges of a novel as well. This said, the story was a bit predictable. Also, Riley seemed impossibly reasonable given everything she endured throughout the duration of the novel. Still, at the end of the day, the novel kept me hooked.

Goodreads gives this novel 3.94 stars out of 5, and I would rank it at 3.4. If you are looking for a page-turner that you cannot put down, this is a great novel go-to!

What are your thoughts on this book review?  Have you read this novel, and if so what did you think of it? Do tell, I would love to know!

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Book Review – What a Son Needs From His Mom

Hello friends and welcome back!  Today, I wanted to share a book review with you for a recent gem of a non-fiction book I listened to on audible. This was my first audiobook!  Check out my last blog post on audiobooks.  The book is entitled What a Son Needs from his Mom, and it was written by bestselling author and parenting expert Cheri Fuller.

I normally read fiction books, so listening to a non-fiction book was a unique experience for me.  Still, as a mother of boys, the moment I read the title I knew I had to read it. So much for not judging a book by its cover, eh?

If I had to summarize the novel, I would say it is intended to equip mothers with the ability to raise their sons into healthy, confident, and caring young men.  The book is faith based, and while those passages are a different religion to mine, the messages were still well received. You can’t go wrong when the motivation behind raising your children is God, religion aside.

I like the author’s tendency to teach through real life example.  She shares stories about her family, and close friends. The author relates the challenges they faced, and how they guided their children.  They were everyday examples, the kinds you can relate to.

The reflective questions at the end of the chapter made me look inward. I always stopped listening after the questions to actually reflect on what was asked. What could I be doing better as a parent? How do I cultivate a loving relationship, while encouraging my sons to grow into independent young men?

Audible has a cool feature which allows you to record clips of the last thirty seconds.  This feature was useful to me in going back and listening to the parts that moved me.

A couple of snippets that hit home for me:

“One of the greatest needs a son has in his first two years is a secure attachment and bond with his mother.  When a mother reacts reliably and sensitively to her infant’s needs, he will form an internal connection to her, what psychologists call a secure attachment.”   This statement hit home for me, but it also made me wonder if I had always reacted compassionately. It can be challenging in the midst of raising another young child, and the other (well-worth it) responsibilities that come with child-rearing. Any parents feel me on that?

There are other people in a boy’s life that influence him, like his father, grandparents, teachers, sisters, brothers and coaches, yet the first and strongest influence is his mother.”

“There are many reasons a son needs his mom. In the early years she provides safety love, and nurture, or tender loving care.”

The above are just a few of the gems from the novel, and I would definitely recommend this read to mothers of boys. While goodreads rated the book a 3.74, I rate it 4.5.

Thanks as always for stopping by my little corner of the web.  Blog ya later, alligator!

Book Review – Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine

Hello folks, and happy Friday! So, in case you were looking for a read to snuggle up with during this national polar vortex, have I got one for you?! You can cozy up in a warm blanket with some hot cocoa, and enjoy the company of Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman. The novel was published in 2017. This will work especially well if you are not much of a football fan. If you are, wait until next weekend to read it.

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine is an uplifting, and real life feel fiction novel, in the midst of a rather unexpected setting. It reminds you that a simple hello, or turning up for someone when they need you, can seem so small in magnitude to one person, while meaning everything to another.

The story takes place in Glasgow with the main character and first person narrator being Eleanor Oliphant. She works in an office as a finance clerk, and lives on her own. She has no real friends or family near her, and other than weekly conversations with her mummy, she lives a rather solitary life. Still, it would seem that for all purposes she is completely fine. She develops a friendship with an unlikely constituent, and the events that unfold after lead to an unraveling of Eleanor.

As I read the book, and connected with the main character, I found that there is a little bit of Eleanor in all of us. Her vocabulary is impeccable, (kudos to the author), she is a bit of a germaphobe, and vodka is her weekend buddy. For someone who does not have people surrounding her (or really anyone), it does not make her feel that she should settle on the company of anyone, or care about their opinions of her.

I found the novel to be a page-turner, and read it in four days, which is lightning speed for me.

Every good novel has an underlying theme. This one was around mental illness, and how a simple kind gesture can move mountains. It really brings to mind the quote by Wendy Mass “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.”

I give Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine five stars, and highly recommend you read it. At the time of this post, the paperback edition is on sale at amazon. Score!

If you have read this book, what did you think of it? Have you gone out of your way to be kind to someone today, whether you know them or not? What are you doing this super bowl weekend? Please share!

Have a wonderful weekend, friends!

2019 Book Reading Goals

Hello, and happy new year, folks!  As we finish off the last year of this decade, I wanted to support you with any of your 2019 book reading goals. This said, I will be sharing book recommendations and reading challenges.  There are several reading challenges that kicked off at the start of the year, and maybe you can add some of these books to your list of reads for 2019.

1. The Ministry of Utmost Happiness by Arundhati Roy

In the most unique and unexpected of settings, Arundhati Roy uses vivid literary imagery to connect you to the characters in this novel.

2. The Palace of Illusions by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

See my book review here: https://anitakharbanda.com/2018/12/28/the-palace-of-illusions-book-review/

3. Before We Visit the Goddess by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

See my book review here: https://anitakharbanda.com/2018/10/03/before-we-visit-the-goddess-book-review/

4. Her Name is Kaur by Meeta Kaur

In this riveting collection of short stories, Sikh American women share their dramatic and humorous experiences with love, spirituality, community and family.

5. Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

You cannot help the empathy and connection you can feel to the author in this memoir about her personal journey through a life altering event.

6. The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri

A perfectly tailored, and award-winning expression of the Indian immigrant experience.

Currently, I am reading a literary work by the up and coming author Balli Kaur Jaswal, entitled Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows. It was on Reese Witherspoon’s book club list, and already I cannot put it down.  Once I finish this novel, I will be moving onto Balli Kaur’s new release 2019 novel: The Unlikely Adventures of the Shergill Sisters.

I am currently enrolled in two goodreads reading challenges. If you do not have a goodreads account you will need to set one up, which is relatively easy.  There are several reading challenges on goodreads, and other websites, but I am highlighting the two I joined.  The links to these are below.

The first reading challenge is a personal goal for the number of books you would like to read this year.   The second challenge is a goal to read 300 books this year. Yikes! Did I scare ya?  You are not alone. It is a virtual certainty that I will not read 300 novels this year, BUT I will be voraciously consuming any ‘goodreads’ possible. Pun intended.

There are several links in the 300 books club group to support the ambitious goal. Firstly, some Goodreads members of the 300 books group have recommended reading graphic novels, shorter novels, and poetry to facilitate the hefty goal. Secondly, there are several tools within this challenge to help you keep track of your novels, and follow the calendar, which runs for the entire year of 2019.  Thirdly, there are reading binge book days where you try to read as much as possible in a given day, usually a Saturday. Fourthly, a monthly book recommendation is also part of the challenge (certainly helpful when you are running out of suggestions and ‘want to reads’). Lasly, there is a link to a substantial list of book recommendations once you join the group. A few that piqued my interest on this list are: Becoming by Michelle Obama, Educated by Tara Westover, and Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

Below are the challenge links:

1. Goodreads challenge personal book reading goal:

https://www.goodreads.com/challenges/8863-2019-reading-challenge

2. Goodreads 300 book reading challenge link:

https://www.goodreads.com/group/show/757578-2019-reading-challenge

Hope this helps with any reading goals you may have for 2019. Do you have any book recommendations?  Please comment and share. I would love to know. Have a wonderful, and book-ish weekend!

The Palace of Illusions – Book review

Hello friends!  I recently read a glorious work of South Asian literature for a book club. It was written by one of my favorite, award winning authors, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni. The novel is entitled The Palace of Illusions, and it was published in 2008.  The novel is set to be released as a motion picture in Bollywood.  Let’s just say I am counting down the days until I can watch it.

Goodreads had an astounding 23,000 ratings for its 4.13 star rating on this fascinating work of art!  

The tale centers around the famous Indian epic, the Mahabharat.  This story is keenly unique, though, in that the point of view is narrated by the one and only Panchaali, wife of the legendary Pandava brothers. As you travel through the part history, part myth story, you will gain a magical, new view of an old historic tale.

Tragedy, duty and sacrifice are pourn like magical water on the novel’s pages, pulling you into the story such that you are there, following Panchaali’s every footstep, her every thought. The novel maps Panchaali’s early life from a fire-born princess in her father’s castle to her marriage  to the five Pandava brothers. Facing exile and war, and a love story gone unfulfilled, we experience Panchaali’s transition from that of a young naive girl, into a fiery, strong woman. The tale reminds us of karma’s magic wand, and the docile hands of fate that follow it.

There are far too many passages that traversed me into a cascade of emotions, but one such discussion between Krishna and Gandhari, contemplating karma, left an imprint on me.  Gandhari, experiencing a mother’s pain, tried to curse the Pandavas, to which Krishna cooly replied:

“All things must end someday.  How can the house of the Yadus be an exception?”  Then his voice grew stern. “But tell me, aren’t you responsible for this war, too? Who indulged Duryodhan when he was a boy, instead of punishing him for the things he did to his cousins?”

Krishna goes on to say:

“Duryodhan broke his word again and again.  He took from his cousins through trickery what was justly theirs- and then, after they’d fulfilled all the conditions he placed on them, refused to return it,  You know this yourself. Isn’t that why when Duryodhan asked for your blessing just before he went to Kurukshetra, you didn’t say ‘May you win’?” Gandhari was weeping.  Krishna put his arm around her shaking shoulders. “Instead you said, ‘May righteousness prevail’ I know it was difficult for a mother to pronounce those words. But you did the right thing. Now that your words have come to pass, how can you hate those who were merely the instruments of universal law, which ultimately must restore that which was out of balance?”

There are many who turn a blind eye to wrongdoing from those that they love, and doing this, especially to young children, can create a future of entitlement.  Karma and fate spring forth from our actions, or lack thereof. Mothers and fathers – and I am speaking to myself as well – teach your kids right from wrong. Their future depends on it.

Have you read this novel, and if so what did you think?  If you had a book club on this novel, what did you all discuss?  Please share, I would love to know.

Before We Visit the Goddess – Book Review

So, I don’t know about you, but I am always up for a good read.  Want a recommendation?  I got one for ya! Recently I read a work of art in literature by one of my favorite authors, and I wanted to take some time to tell you about it.

Chitra Banerjee Divakurni published ‘Before We Visit the Goddess’ in April of 2016. It is a powerful novel from the award-winning author of Palace of Illusions, Sister of My Heart and Arranged Marriage: Stories.  The novel weaves the tale of three generations of transcontinental Indian mothers and daughters who discover that their greatest source of strength is one another. They are a family torn apart and brought back together through the bonds of family, regardless of the hurdles they face.

The three women’s stories are musical like explosions of love, loss, and forgiveness that astound you with the poetic ease of the writing style.

The website www.goodreads.com has given the book 3.75 stars.  I give it 4 stars out of 4,  because it is in my top 10 of must read books.

Sabitri is the daughter of a poor and rural family, who desires an education but makes a mistake in love, in her one opportunity to obtain that education.  Sabitri’s daughter Bela is impacted by her mother’s misstep, which later leads to struggles in Bela’s marriage. These challenges imprint Bela’s daughter Tara with lessons about loyalty, love and believing in yourself.  The novel also has a beautiful emphasis on female empowerment and education.

I am a Houston, Texas native, which is where Bela and Tara live, and I found it noteworthy that the author’s accuracy of the description as it relates to highways, and  a famous restaurant Niko Niko’s was spot on.

The inter blending of the Indian and American culture via the epigraphs from Manusmriti and Jean Thompson at the beginning of the novel were beautiful touches due to the novel straddling both India and America.

Above all, the most moving piece of the novel for me was the letter that Bela asked her mother Sabitri to write to Tara about her educational decisions.  It appears at the beginning and end of the novel.  A belief in fate and God could be provided as an explanation for the way, and timing of which, Bela actually receives this letter.

The below was a life lesson in the form of poetry, in my opinion. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni is a talented artist of words so keenly connected to our Indian culture.  The relevance of the below paragraph’s final sentence can be tied into a proverb of a good woman Sabitri’s mother shared with her, which was too backward for Sabitri. The proverb said ‘Good daughters are fortunate lamps brightening the family’s name.  Wicked daughter’s are firebrands, blackening the family’s name.’

‘One day, in the kitchen at the back of the store, I held in my hand a new recipe I had perfected, the sweet I would go on to name after my dead mother. I took a bite of the conch-shaped dessert, the palest most elegant mango color.  The smooth, creamy flavor of fruit and milk, sugar and saffron mingled and melted on my tongue. Satisfaction overwhelmed me. This was something I had achieved by myself, without having to depend on anyone. No one could take it away.  That’s what I want for you, my Tara, my Bela. That’s what it really means to be a fortunate lamp.’

May all woman be fortunate lamps, but only by Sabitri’s definition of it.